The 24-hour retreat at Ampleforth Abbey provided a focused period of rest, reflection, and renewal within a monastic setting. The Benedictine community is known for welcoming guests for prayer and reflection as part of its tradition of hospitality grounded in the rule of St Benedict.
Let all guests who arrive be received like Christ, who will say: I came as a guest, and you received me. RULE OF ST BENEDICT
The retreat created space for 16 people from across the synod who volunteer and work with children, youth and families to step back from routine demands for reflection, prayer, social time and a guided conversation on our identity and values. We were led by Lisa Campbell from Wonderful Me who helped us to explore and reflect on our values – thinking about passion, purpose, principles and person (character).
We looked at how values inform our practice, shape our approach and influence our decision making. Lisa led us through a process of identifying and reflecting on different aspects of values using creative responses and a specially created pack of cards.
| This was a challenging process. We spent time working alone and sharing with one another as we worked to deepen our understanding. We each came away with a greater understanding of our own values and an awareness of how to apply them more intentionally. |
In between sessions we also had the chance to explore the Abbey and its surroundings on an individual
‘wonder walk’. We had opportunities to join in any of the 5 daily services, (and, yes a few were there for 6am Mattins)! We enjoyed spotting the Robert ‘Mouseman’ Thomson carvings and while some of us watched the football other spent their evening watching the bats and young rabbits.
The experience provided meaningful space away and reinforced the value of intentional pause. It gave us the opportunity to get to know each other and share our experiences and laugh together.
Below are some reflections from three people who attended:
‘I really enjoyed being with you all in such a beautiful setting. The sessions were thought provoking, and I’ve found myself lingering on some of the focused reflective activities. I am using the value cards in sessions today with young people. Thank you so much for all of the effort, care and investment.’ Cathy Beynon, Children and Family Worker, Toll Gavel LEP, Beverley.
‘An amazing 24 hours in the most beautiful space, so skilfully and gently led by Lisa and Hannah. Thank you synod and Megan for facilitating this. Much appreciated and helpful in both personal development and making connections.’ Margaret Knapton, PILOTS captain, Hornsea URC.
‘It was a lovely time to stand back and look at how things are going, take a deep breath and get ready to go on in God’s strength…Good to meet others who have ideas and experience about different ways to do things. Thank you for all your suggestions, support, prayer and general chat.’ Caroline Butler, Toddler Group Leader, Knaresbrough URC.